SHE’S EVIL.COM

 VISIT THE SHE’S EVIL RANT PAGE

What we’re about

Welcome to She’s Evil.com. Let’s start by telling you what we’re all about. First off, we do not hate women. We love women. Really. We REALLY love some women. But like most of you, we’ve had our different experiences with them, and let’s face it gentlemen, some of them are just plain EVIL! That’s not to say that they all are, or that all of us are perfect. (Truth is, some of us can be evil too. Not exactly breaking news) But this site is for the average guy out there, married or not, who tries to do the right things, plays by the rules (and it’s pretty clear nowadays that we didn’t write the damn rules), and just finds himself frustrated by a one-sided relationship where the woman wants more and more, believes that her needs and feelings are paramount, and doesn’t give a damn about our own wants or long-term goals.

            The creators of this site are all either married or divorced, and naturally that colors our outlook. But the site is not strictly for divorced men. All are welcome, whether they are married, single, engaged, or divorced. Anybody who has experienced an evil woman. Hell, maybe even frustrated lesbians can offer something here (we’re not quite sure yet though. The jury is still out on whether people who think like you can ever  agree with people who think like us). We want this to be enjoyable, and a place to vent. Get your frustrations off your chest with like minded people facing the same problems and stresses. Let off some steam in a cyber world that speaks your language. But we also aim to be a resource for men who are facing the real  problems of  divorce or relationship stress. We plan to post links to online resources, from legal advice to matchmaking services, that will be of assistance to men currently in bad relationships. But mostly, this is YOUR site. Log in, read what’s up here, and weigh in with your comments and experiences.

            US population statistics indicate that as many as 12 million American men have experienced divorce. This is very likely the most underserved and underrepresented demographic group in our society. Child custody laws are stacked against us. Popular culture paints us as insensitive louts who deserve our miserable lot in life. Family court judges rule against us with regularity. The media paints a picture of abusive spouses and deadbeat dads. There are very few outlets that give us a voice, respect our opinions, and look out for our interests. This site aims to provide that outlet. So enjoy the ride, and get in the game. We want to hear from you, and we want the world to hear from all of us. If you want to show off your thoughts visit the She’s Evil Shop

Selecting a Divorce Attorney by Munish Dev Rathee

Selecting a divorce attorney is a vital decision making process. The person who you take on will be liable for obtaining or maintaining your custody rights to your children, your property interests, and depending upon the side you are one, either minimizing or maximizing your support rights. In reality, choosing a divorce attorney is also an very stressful experience. You have to be right in choosing your attorney otherwise you will have to suffer a lot.
There are few tactics which you should remember before selecting an attorney. Before you even begin, you need to identify the type of case that you will be involved in. Will you be mediating your divorce? Will you be negotiating? Or, will your case be one of those cases that go to court and become a knock down, drag out divorce litigation? There are divorce attorneys who specialize in these different types of cases and you need to appoint the type of divorce attorney who is best suited to the type of case that you have. If you need to deal with a knock down, drag out litigation, you do not want a mediation attorney trying to defend your interests. Likewise, if you are going through mediation, the last thing you want is a divorce attorney who will try to build issues and move you in the direction of litigation.
The very first step in selecting your attorney is to identify your case. Next, start asking people for help. Since the divorce rate in the United States is at about 50%, chances are you know at least several people who have been through a divorce. Ask about their process, how they selected a divorce attorney, and how their attorney performed for them.
After getting the list of attorneys from other persons you should start looking for their profile from the internet by visiting their websites. Many divorce attorneys have websites, write articles, and advertise on divorce portal websites. By visiting their websites you come to know how they deal in different cases and some of them had posted case study to know what’s are the different tactics used by them to deal different type of cases.
After you have reviewed the divorce attorney websites, make a list of at least two and as many as five divorce attorneys who you think you will be comfortable speaking with. Take appointment by calling in their offices in working hours. Some of those attorneys will charge you for a consultation; the more experience the attorney has, the more likely that you will have to pay for time with that attorney.
When you attend a discussion with a divorce attorney, be prepared. prepare a small history of your case which going to help you out while discussing your case with him/her. If you or your spouse has filed any papers in court, make sure you bring them with you. Bring one or two years tax returns or a recent financial statement so that the divorce attorney can review some of your financial data before being asked questions about “results”.
Make sure you ask each divorce attorney questions about how that attorney’s office operates in response to client phone calls, emails, or other inquiries or needs. If you will be working with a divorce attorney who has no other attorney in their office, be prepared to wait in line when you have a need for a response. That attorney will have other clients who have needs just as significant as yours, and an attorney can be responsive to only one client at a time. Even with that disadvantage, there may be a divorce attorney who you feel is just right for you who is also a solo practitioner. That is a trade off that you may have to get comfortable with.
After you have finished all of the consultations and reviewed the answers to all of your questions, decide which divorce attorney you felt most comfortable with and which one you believe will work with you to get the type of results that you want.
About the Author
Munish Rathee working for Visibility Partners, the client sites he is working on are Naperville Divorce Attorney, Sonoma County Divorce Attorney, New Jersey Divorce Attorneys.